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Question By : Ejaz Hussain

Respected Mufti Sahib

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Can I divorce my wife for below reasons:-

(1) I am unable to satisfy her as husband 100% that¡¯s why we don¡¯t have any kid? I was un-aware that I have sexual weakness before marriage.

(2) My wife does not want to meet my parents, family, brother and sisters. On the other hand, my all family members also do not want to meet my wife. My wife now also trying to cut me from them and asking me to now meet them. But I want to finish their clashes but now my wife is not accepting my any request.

(3) I am under debt, but she is demanding from me her monthly pocket money and every thing but I want she should cooperate with me until I finish my debt. Now I am tired from daily question answers with her.

In the light of above reason, can I divorce my wife and How should I divorce in a good way as per Islamic teachings?
Please reply me as I am very upset.

Thank you very much

 

Reply By : Md. Asad
Designation : Mufti, ODI, MMERC, Mumbai 

In the name of Allah the most gracious the most merciful

The answer to your question is as follows:

Keep in mind that Talaq is not the solution of every problem. It is narrated in Hadith that the worst among lawful things in the sight of Allah is Talaq. So you should not try to divorce your wife rather you should consult any sexologist and get recovery from your sex problem soon. You should also teach your wife gently about Islamic teachings and how to deal with family members. You may also sit with your family members and try to solve all these problems. If your sex problem doesn¡¯t get recovery and your wife demanding Talaq from you, then write to me or consult local Ulama and Muftis for the same. In short, don¡¯t hurry in divorcing your wife.

And Allah (swt) knows the be

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